About me

My Personal Background

I began my polyamory journey over a decade ago. I was nearing age 40 when I realized I've always been polyamorous. In opening our marriage, my partner and I made all the mistakes, big and small, and eventually parted ways. Today I have many wonderful relationships that are each different and fulfilling in their own unique way.

My Professional Background

I received my CNM Relationship Coaching certification in 2021 through Sexual Health Alliance, led by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff .

I have earned my certification in Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) Level 1: Clinical Skills and Interventions from Institute for Relational Intimacy. This certification equips me to provide expert guidance and support in navigating the complexities of non-monogamous relationships.

Professionalism and Experience

As a professionally trained and experienced consensual non-monogamy coach specializing in polyamory, I have the tools and understanding to help you to create the life you imagine and design the relationships you want.

Support for the Journey

My goal is to help you have the BEST relationships of your life.

With extensive experience in Polyamory and CNM Coaching and a vast history of personal successes, my individualized approach will help you to overcome your challenges.

Taking the Steps

Committing to healthier relationships is just that – a commitment, and it’s a big one that will take effort and dedication. My commitment is to provide you with accountability, understanding and support to help you design and live the relationships of your dreams.

My Mission

My mission is fueled by a relentless passion: to validate and elevate polyamorous relationships. With a foundation of empathy, open communication, and deep connections, I am driven to equip you with the tools and insights needed to cultivate thriving, healthy polyamorous bonds. My commitment to your journey is unwavering, and together, we'll explore the limitless possibilities of love, connection, and personal growth within polyamory. Join me in embracing the beauty of open and authentic relationships.

Frequently Asked Questions

Please contact me if you cannot find an answer to your question here.

How Does Coaching Work?

Coaching is a collaborative and interactive process where we work together to identify your relationship goals, explore your passions, and develop personalized strategies to help you navigate the journey towards the fulfilling and authentic relationships you desire. Through open and honest communication, I provide guidance, support, and tools tailored to your unique needs to help you achieve your relationship aspirations.

Is Coaching Confidential?

Yes, coaching is 100% confidential. Your privacy is of utmost importance, and just like seeing a therapist, what we discuss in our sessions remains strictly confidential. You can feel safe and secure in sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences as we work together to support your relationship journey.

How Can Coaching Benefit My Polyamorous Journey?

Coaching can greatly enhance your polyamorous journey by providing guidance, tools, and support tailored to your specific place in this adventure. Whether you're just starting or seeking to deepen existing relationships, coaching helps preserve and strengthen connections, minimizing the risk of misunderstandings or hurtful decisions. Through effective communication and decision-making strategies, coaching fosters healthier relationships, empowering you to build lasting, fulfilling connections based on your current needs and aspirations.

What Should I Expect in a Coaching Session?

In a coaching session, you can expect a safe, confidential space where we explore your unique challenges and goals. We'll work together to develop strategies tailored to your needs, helping you navigate your polyamorous journey with clarity and confidence. My role is to provide guidance, support, and feedback as you make meaningful progress toward your desired outcomes. These sessions are all about you, your growth, and enhancing your relationships. Your voice matters, and together, we'll unlock the tools to create love and connection on your terms.

Is Coaching Suitable for Individuals, Couples, or Groups?

Coaching is incredibly versatile and suitable for individuals, couples, or groups. I tailor sessions to meet your specific needs. If you're part of a group facing similar challenges, we may initially concentrate on an individual or couple to address specific issues. Once we've made progress, we can open the sessions to the wider group, ensuring that everyone's needs are addressed. Whether you're navigating polyamory as an individual, a couple, or within a community, coaching is a valuable resource to help you achieve your relationship goals and create the love and connections you desire.

How Long Does it Typically Take to See Results?

The time it takes to see results in your coaching process can vary depending on the complexity of your goals, your level of commitment, and how open you are to the process. While I aim to make coaching efficient and effective, it's important to understand that lasting transformation may require multiple sessions over time. We'll work together at a pace that suits your needs, ensuring you experience meaningful progress and long-lasting results on your unique relationship journey.

What If I'm Not Sure Coaching Is Right For Me?

If you're unsure about coaching, it's completely natural. I offer a free 20-minute consultation, so you can explore if coaching aligns with your needs and comfort level. This conversation allows you to get a feel for how coaching works and determine if it's the right path for your relationship journey. There's no obligation, and I'm here to answer your questions and provide clarity. It's a risk-free opportunity to take that first step towards enhancing your relationships. Your journey begins with an open conversation – reach out, and let's explore the possibilities together.

How Can I Get Started with Coaching?

Getting started with coaching is easy! Begin by scheduling a free 20-minute Quick Chat with me. During this conversation, we'll explore your unique goals, challenges, and aspirations. It's an opportunity for you to ask questions, learn about the coaching process, and determine if it aligns with your needs. From there, we'll create a customized coaching plan tailored to your journey. Whether you're an individual, couple, or group, I'm here to guide you toward more fulfilling, authentic relationships. Take that first step, reach out, and let's embark on this transformative journey together.